Queer Talk: Gay Porn is not Real Gay Sex

People watch porn for many reasons. Most of all is for fun. Some want inspiration. Do I watch porn? I do. Do I get inspired? That's something else.

Let us start it with something I like about porn. Hold on, is it about me? Of course it is. This writing is based on my experiences.

Back to my junior high school time when acnes exploaded and those hormones were working, watched porn was an exciting experience. There was a kid in my class that well-known as a kid who supplied straight porn movies to sell. I still remember all the 3gp porn movies he downloaded at night would be in our Nokia and Blackbery cell phones by the morning. We called him, Toke Bokep.

My first gay porn experience was when I was 8th grader. We watched the sneak peek gay porn from a famous website at that time, XXX (the link was shared by some random accounts on mIRC.) What was the scene? Well, it was five adult men banging one each other, sticking dicks like a train. That scared us to death.

Nowdays, you are able to get tools or to watch porn in many genres, style and themes in order to support your fetish. I've seen an twitter account sold used panties for whom fantisize sex in that kinda way. I have a friend who loves having sex with a guy who has dark complexion skin and smelly. Mine is a skinny guy with a little bit abs and strong arms and top of all: not smelly. My favorite gay porn is Japanese gay porn starred by two tanned-skin guys a la Hokkaido style with lots of licks.

Porn provides gateway to your wildest dream and displays it so real visually. It is a platform to channel your insatiable fetish that your sex partner can not give. Sometimes, it trigs us to do same thing in the real life which may be you forget is not always suitable.

A friend of mine told me that he wanted to be banged with two dicks on his ass. Just like what he watchs on gay porn. I am still scare to put a dick on my ass. I am really not into anal sex. And that brings series of problem to my personal sex life. It seems like gay sex is only about sticking ass with dick and more dicks. Hell, no!

There's a lot of style choices when it comes to sex. Mine are kissing and licking more. Sucks? What-so-ever! Gay porn gives us too much informations when it comes to sex-style and some people want to make it happen in a real life. Well, that's okay if you and your partner agree to copy gay porn's style. But, remember that gay porn you watch is just a movie. The scenes were dramatized, faked scream, it took hours to make a complete scenes not in fucking 30 minutes.

Well, some gay porn may be real as it may seems. The euphoria, passionate scenes, lots of movement, that public exhibit. But in the end of the day, those are just people who got sex for money. Trust me, there is no guarantee that they like every single man the producers got them into paired. Ups. That information is everywhere. You just need to google it.

I remember a story of Fabio Toba interviewed by Vice Indonesia. Toba is the first Indonesian gay porn star (I guess, simply because he was filmed by major production houses and it is diffrent from Aris - another Indonesian gay porn star that used to go viral - that came up like amateur.) Toba had starred lots of gay porn movies. I watched some of them. And Toba told Vice Indonesia that sometimes he didn't like his partner on the scene since that guy was not kind of his type- sexual preference and it took a whole day to film a movie.

I think it is wise to discuss with your partner what sex style you want to take from gay porn movies at the first time. It is not good to push someone else, even if he was your sex partner for one night stand, to just do what you want.

Like I write above, having sex in the gay world is not always about sticking dick in to ass. It is important to ask your partner what he wants and tell him what you want. Then you do sex based on what you both have choosen. It is not a big demand.